Whether you need emotional support, information, or someone to talk to, we’re here for you every step of the way.
Bereavement Support
At Massey Bros., we understand that losing a loved one can be one of the most difficult times in life. Our Bereavement Support resources are here to offer comfort, guidance, and practical help as you navigate your loss.
Bereavement Support
Grief can affect us in many ways—emotionally, physically and practically—and it changes over time. There is no “right” way to grieve and no set timeline. If you’re finding things hard, help is available.
What you might be feeling
People often describe a mix of emotions, including shock, sadness, anger, guilt, numbness, or even relief. You might notice changes in sleep, appetite, concentration or energy. These reactions are common after loss and can ebb and flow. However you feel today, you’re not doing it “wrong.” Grief can come in waves—strong one moment, quieter the next—and that’s normal. If the feelings feel very heavy most of the time, it’s okay to ask for help - support is available.
Please Note
Every loss is unique. If you have experienced a sudden or unexpected death, or a bereavement by suicide, you may find the links below helpful. These pages offer gentle guidance and information that may feel more suited to your situation.
What can help (small, gentle steps)
Talk to someone you trust. A friend, family member, GP or a helpline can make a difference.
Keep things simple. Light routines, a short walk, regular meals and rest can help steady the day.
Let feelings come and go. Grief is personal—there’s no set “stage” you have to reach by a certain time.
Accept practical help. It’s okay to say “yes” to meals, lifts or company.
Create small moments of remembrance. A candle, a favourite song, or writing a note can be comforting.
Supporting children and young people
Be honest and age-appropriate. Simple, clear language helps.
Keep routines where possible. Familiar rhythms can feel safe.
Invite questions. It’s okay not to have all the answers.
Use supportive resources. See the services listed, including the Irish Hospice Foundation links.
Practical matters (when you feel ready)
Notifying schools, employers, clubs or community groups.
Organising paperwork (certificates, accounts, utilities).
Planning memorials or anniversaries in a way that feels right for you.
You can find more information on practical tasks and frequently asked questions here
When to seek more support
Consider extra support if feelings are overwhelming most of the time, if daily life is very hard for several weeks, or if you’re worried about your safety or the safety of someone else.
Reaching out is a strong step forward.
Trusted supports & information
HSE – Coping with grief: practical guidance and links to supports - hse.ie/grief
Irish Hospice Foundation – Bereavement Support Line: national freephone for anyone who is grieving. hospicefoundation.ie or call 1800 80 70 77
Your Mental Health - For information and advice about your mental health and wellbeing - yourmentalhealth.ie
How Massey Bros. can help
We’ll guide you through choices and take care of practical arrangements.
If you’d like a quiet chat before making decisions, we’re here.
We can point you towards trusted services and information.
FAQs
Is there a “normal” length of grief?
No. Everyone grieves in their own way and time.
I don’t feel ready to talk—what else can I do?
Gentle routines, journalling, short walks and small acts of remembrance can help until you feel ready.
Can I get support even months or years later?
Yes. Support is available whenever you need it.
IF YOU NEED SUPPORT RIGHT NOW
Contact Samaritans
24/7 on freephone 116 123 or email jo@samaritans.ie
Contact Text About It
A free 24/7 crisis text service, by texting HELLO to 50808 or see www.textaboutit.ie
Or if you, or someone you know is at immediate risk of harm, go to or call the Emergency Department of your local general hospital. You can also contact emergency services on 112 or 999 anytime, day or night.
Disclaimer: The information on this page is general and not a substitute for medical or therapeutic advice. Please contact a healthcare professional if you need clinical support.
“When my mother alongside her brothers established the company more than 80 years ago they did so out of a desire to support and care for local bereaved families. That support and care still lies at the heart of the company today.”
Freddie Maguire
(1947–2025)